This morning I was surprised and excited about receiving an email from Mark White. Within the past two weeks Jack Park shared with me that he had re-established connections with Mark White and Dale Wachowiak. Jack shared their email addresses with me and last evening I generated an email to both Mark and Dale. This morning I was thrilled by an immediate reply from Mark. Mark conveyed his delight to have heard from me. He added that he enjoyed his 5 years at the Josephinum and that he has kept in contact with a few of our classmates.
Mark shared with me an email that he had sent to Bernie Rabik and he noted that it would be fine if I shared it with other classmates. I found it very interesting. I am now attaching his email to Bernie in its entirety:
"Rab … great hearing from you. Sounds like life is good there; it is here too.
I’m not much fun on the phone since I’m a little hard of hearing, but email a date and time when you are free and I’ll give you a call or … for now … we can use email to catch up. Counselor, I realize your time is money. You still earn it … I only spend it.
Highlights after leaving the Joss:
• College – Graduated from the University of Detroit; at the time the only university in America completely surrounded by used car lots; Radio-TV major; theatre minor. Worked as a disk-jockey; lots of summer stock, radio dramas, live television dramas (no video-taping in those days). Won a MFA fellowship (theatre) at University of Michigan.
• New York Theatre – Dropped graduate work; appeared with the APA, a professional repertory acting company on Broadway for a season before being drafted into the Army; acted with several notables to include Rosemary Harris (Spiderman’s Aunt), Nancy Marchand (Tony Soprano’s mother), Donald Moffat, Keene Curtis, Helen Hayes and others.
• US Army – Entered a Private; left a Captain (OCS graduate); served 13 months in Korea as an Infantry Company Commander; dodged “Nam” since I was a sole surviving son (my father was killed in WWII); I spent 4+ years “walking the wall” keeping everyone safe. Married Betty, my colonel’s secretary, during the last tour of duty at Ft. Benning, Ga. I appeared in several local theatre productions; got out of the Army and never again treaded the boards. It was time to settle down, get a real job and raise a family.
• Married life – Betty and I were blessed with a daughter and two sons; each graduated college; one from Notre Dame. Betty and I were married 42 years before she passed away in 2011 from cancer. She was my life partner; a beautiful gal, person, mother and wife. I miss her dearly. I have three grandchildren.
• Professional life – Worked at Xerox (Atlanta) for 12 years in sales and sales management; later was President of two office supply companies and a medical supply company (Georgia, Carolinas, Bermuda). Betty and I lived in Bermuda for five years where I worked and she partied. Bermuda has best been described as 60,000 drunks hanging on to a rock in the middle of the ocean. We hung on and had a ball. I spent 33 years in the industry; afterwards I wrote a book on sales management which has done well considering very few can get past the first two chapters without falling asleep.
• Retirement - I retired in 2003 to take care of Betty. I live in Columbus, Ga. where Betty and I began our life together. My son, Mark Jr. is currently living with me while finishing his PHD dissertation. I enjoy cooking, am bald, fat, missing a few teeth, can’t hear or see very well, and lazy … but … content.
That’s a snap-shot at 10,000 feet. I’m most interested in reviewing your life’s high-lights. Hope to hear from you soon, Rab."
Mark's email address is mwwhite@knology.net.
WELCOME to this blog for the JOSS Class of 1968. This blog is for us, members of this class. It celebrates all of us, all that we are individually and as a group, and honors those who have died. Each one of us is uniquely graced and gifted.
Most of us first came together in 1956 at a little-known place in Central Ohio. Others arrived later. Whether we left the Josephinum before ordination or were ordained in 1968, we all followed uniquely individual calls.
We have journeyed through significant historical times - "Camelot", Vatican II, the Vietnam War, exploration of space, the civil rights movement, advances in communication technology, sexual abuse in the Catholic Church, growth in and loss of relationships, terrorism, medical/surgical breakthroughs, "Arab Spring", and much more.
The vision for this blog is to connect anew, share our stories, support one another.
Greetings! Jump on board! Peace and Shalom!
Tom Meyer
Chapel Hill, North Carolina
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